Guides
Straight answers about life during and after divorce.
Each guide opens with the short answer, then the detail. Written by people who have been through it, not by lawyers or therapists.
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Men
Women
Everyone
Divorce support groups in South Africa: how to choose
An honest rundown of divorce support groups in South Africa: church courses, counselling, online groups and activity meetups, and who each one suits.
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Men
How to cope with divorce as a man
Practical steps for men going through divorce in South Africa: what the first months feel like, what helps, what makes it worse, and when to get proper help.
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Men
Life after divorce for men: starting over at 30, 40 and 50
What life after divorce looks like for men at different ages, and how to rebuild a home, a routine, friendships and eventually a relationship.
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Women
Life after divorce for women: finding your feet again
What life after divorce looks like for women in South Africa, and practical steps for money, routine, friendships and rest.
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Men
Women
Everyone
Lonely after divorce: why it happens and what to do about it
Why loneliness after divorce hits so hard, which hours are the worst, and practical ways to deal with it without rushing into a new relationship.
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Men
Women
Everyone
How to make friends and meet people after divorce
How to rebuild a social life after divorce in South Africa: where to meet people, how often to show up, and how to turn familiar faces into friends.
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Men
Divorced dads: staying close to your kids
Practical advice for divorced fathers in South Africa: staying close to your children, handling weekends without them, and finding other dads.
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Everyone
Dating after divorce: when you are ready and where to meet
How to tell when you are ready to date after divorce, where divorced singles meet in South Africa without apps, and how to handle children and a new partner.
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